the poly community has built some of the most thoughtful relationship-design tools in existence. the relationship anarchy smorgasbord. the non-escalator menu. multiamory's radar. all of them are pdfs. groundwork is where those ideas become interactive: guided experiences you do with the people you're building with.
the research, the lineage, the gap, and what tessakin builds to close it.
read the essay →the daily practices
daily · romantic kin
one question a day, answered apart, revealed together.
weekly · any kin
the practice of noticing what went right.
the guided experiences
multi-date · 2-4 people
six dates for discovering whether the spark has roots.
recurring · romantic kin
a monthly practice for the relationship you're building.
the archive
the archive of everything you've built. every pulse, glimmer, ember, sounding, and tending. visible when you need it.