pulse: one question a day, answered apart, revealed together.

most couples check in when something’s wrong. pulse is what happens when you check in every day, whether anything’s wrong or not.

one question. both answer on a slider. the numbers reveal when both have submitted. that’s it.

open your pulse →

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the mechanic is simple but the principle underneath it matters: you answer alone, then see each other’s answer. you’re honest because nobody’s watching. the reveal is where the conversation starts, not where it ends.

some days the numbers match and you smile. some days they don’t and you talk. some days you skip it and that’s fine too. pulse isn’t a test. it’s a daily temperature reading for a relationship that’s alive.

the questions rotate: how connected do you feel today? how’s your energy for this relationship right now? how seen do you feel by me lately? each one is small enough to answer in ten seconds and real enough to surface something worth noticing.

the streak builds over weeks and months. 30 days of pulse is a visible rhythm. 90 days is a record of how a relationship breathes. the history is the artifact: not a score, not a grade, just the honest shape of how two people have been showing up for each other.

pulse is for romantic kin only. partner, nesting partner, anchor, comet, crush. the questions are calibrated for people building something intimate together.

if you don’t have a pulse partner yet, invite someone to kin and start one together. if you do, open today’s question.

open your pulse →