find your relational archetype.
Twelve ways of moving through love. One of them is probably yours. Pick the quiz that fits the time you have right now.
quick
about five minutes.
- Your archetype, one of twelve
- The tagline that goes with it
- A light read on what it means
no account required to take it or see your result.
full
about twenty minutes.
- Everything in the quick quiz
- Your eleven-dimension profile
- Fictional kin and recommended spaces
- Optional kink and lifestyle overlays
no account required. save and resume anytime with an account.
a few of the twelve
yours emerges from how you score across all eleven dimensions.
how it works
The quick quiz takes about five minutes and gives you your archetype name and tagline. The full quiz goes deeper, fifteen dimensions, about twenty minutes, and shows you your complete relational profile.
The first ten dimensions are the core. Everyone answers these. They describe how you structure, pace, and show up in plural relationships.
The full quiz also covers attraction pattern, how attraction arrives for you, plus two optional sections on power dynamics and lifestyle practices. You can skip either. Your core archetype doesn't depend on them.
10
core
Compersion, structure, hierarchy, nesting, pace, communication, jealousy, solo spectrum, community role, chosen family.
01
attraction pattern
How attraction arrives for you, including demisexual, sapio-leaning, responsive, and graded patterns.
03
kink overlay
Power dynamics, roles, and intensity. Opt-in. Skipping won't affect your archetype.
02
lifestyle overlay
Swinging spectrum and social discretion. Also opt-in.
how we handle what you tell us
private by default
Your results are private by default. We don't share anything until you explicitly choose to.
real opt-ins
The opt-in sections are real opt-ins. If you skip them, nothing about you in those categories gets recorded or surfaced anywhere.
no account required
You can take either quiz and see your archetype name and tagline without creating an account. An account unlocks your full profile and lets you save and retake.
not sold, not shared
We use quiz data to show you your archetype and suggest community spaces. That's it. We don't sell it or share it.