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view all →polyamory gets lumped in with swinging, open relationships, and the rest. a plain map of the non-monogamous neighborhood: what they share, how they differ, and why none of them sits above the others.
Tessakin · Oct 2026
we name what we want in a relationship long before we ask what we value in one. a look at moving from the behaviors we ask for to the values underneath them, and why naming that difference gives you something truer to say.we name what we want in a relationship long before we ask what we value in one. a look at moving from the behaviors we ask for to the values underneath them, and why naming that difference gives you something truer to say.
antonio · Sep 2026
an exploration of somatic movement as part of my ongoing tantric journey, and what happens when i stop trying to understand everything from the neck up. through grounding, guided movement, emotion, and flow, i'm learning to let the body participate in how i process, connect, and understand myself.
antonio · Sep 2026
i came to these slowly · through study, through loss, through having more than one romantic partner at a time. three practices that don’t resolve when you tend them. they intensify. this is where i am with all three.
antonio · Jul 2026
one of you loves more than one person. one of you loves just the one. that’s poly/mono · a real, common, whole way to build a life together. here’s what it is, why monogamy isn’t the lesser setting, and how two people hold it honestly.
Tessakin · Jul 2026
hierarchy and priority are often used interchangeably in conversations about polyamory. they're not the same thing, and confusing the two creates misunderstandings that can quietly shape relationships.
Tessakin · Jul 2026
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