a regular check-in on the relationship itself, with action items that carry forward.
a monthly or quarterly check-in across eight topics: reflect privately on the ones you want to, submit, then talk it through together once everyone has, with action items that carry into the next one. tessakin tells you when it's your turn.
for kin you've both labeled romantic.
want to talk about Tending with people who live it?
definition contributed by Tessakin