most people can't find you; your kin still can.
in quiet mode you're hidden from search and discovery: member search, the search for people to message, add to a group message or invite to an event, @-mention suggestions, space member lists, other members' constellation maps, and the cuffing pool. your direct kin still see you and everything you share with them. kin of your kin don't.
a few things still carry your name, by design: your event rsvps, the posts and comments you make in a space, and anything from before you turned quiet mode on. if you share an answer with a hub while in quiet mode, your name shows with it to the people in that hub, and tessakin tells you so before you choose.
two places don't hide you: a game host searching for people to invite can still find you by name, and a hub's leaders can still find you among that hub's members when they choose admins. and anyone who already has the link to your profile can still open it.
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definition contributed by Tessakin